Catch Up

August 26th, 2009

Let’s play catch up.

Since my last post riddled with insecurity, LC and I have of course discussed the state of affairs. I learned he has deliberately let his lease go month to month so we have options when my lease is up. (I even learned it without prompting on my part, thank you very much.) He learned I’m still feeling a little shaky. We both learned how the other sees this situation and is feeling, and some compromises are being reached. Together. In a productive-like way. Who knew?

Also, you’ll notice in the above paragraph that it seems I will be moving house at the end of this year. That, my dears, is the plan. It will be nice for a lot of reasons. I mean, no more packing overnight bags or stashing toiletries under sinks. No more realizing when I get out of the shower that my good hair dryer was forgotten at home. No more uncomfortable bed. No more leaving things behind and only figuring out too late. And no more discussions of “Your place or mine?”

And, as hard as this is to believe, if you ignore our little month hiatus (which we’ve decided to do) we have been together for 11 months. Almost a year.  Not too shabby for a little one date wonder, huh?

Identity Crisis

August 18th, 2009

My blog is suffering from an identity crisis.

Back in January of 2008, I was a single girl going on bad date after bad date.  Some funny, some simply tragic… but still single all the while. This blog was all light and funny then. But now, I’m not-so-single anymore. And while I still have things to say, I’m not sure what to do with this space. (Hence the recent bout of silence.)

So, dear readers, you tell me… should I continue to write but cover more of my life? Should I write only about my relationship and relationships/dating in general, or should I take my ball and go home? What do you (or don’t you, as the case may be) want to read?