Comments on: Inside my mind

By: QTMama

QTMama — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 18:13:09 +0000

DUDE! Are you ALIVE?

I am not, in fact. Sorry to dissapoint.

By: Seductress

Seductress — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 16:20:04 +0000

There is a lot to be said for the pull back.
Sometimes we have to do it to give ourselves or our partner a little breather and sometimes we do it to remind our man that the ‘chase’ should never really be completely over.

Romance stays alive when the woo-ing, flirting and chasing stays alive. I have an interesting blogpost on this very subject right now about ‘inflicting a little pain’.

Great blog by the way. Your introspection and vulnerable way of expressing yourself is refreshing and endearing.

Well thank you!

By: Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts

Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 14:41:06 +0000

I have been where you are…emotionally. Felt the exact things you feel in the exact same way so I totally get the just wanting to vent thing and not wanting advice. I so get it.

That’s all I can say…I so get it.

Well thanks. Not everything needs fixing, after all.

By: Love Coach Rinatta

Love Coach Rinatta — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 21:43:43 +0000

Have a great time and when you are actually ready/want feedback, it will be here.

We had a blast. And I think, for once, I’ve got this one under control.

By: Love Coach Rinatta

Love Coach Rinatta — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:40:23 +0000

Jane, so were you just venting, or do you actually want some input? Because I’ve got input if you want it.

Honestly, I was just blowing off some over-emotional steam. We’re going away for a week together starting today, so it’s not like anyone is trying to offload the other. And I know he’s not actually going anywhere. I just have my moments and figured this was a safe place to let it out a bit.

By: Catherinette Singleton

Catherinette Singleton — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:27:48 +0000

You know I say this with love – get thee to a therapist. You’re cutting yourself short and that’s probably a contributing factor to what makes you feel so insecure.

Or it could be that I am just venting. I know you mean well, and I know how you feel about this. But I’d prefer to drop it honestly.

By: Red

Red — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:21:11 +0000

I really hope you’re wrong about that last part. One of the great things about a guy like LC is feeling taken care of. But you know you have to remember to take care of yourself. You would hurt if this ended, but you’d still be you. I don’t necessarily think you have to think of it as pulling back, but maybe going places and/or doing things just for you will show him that you’re still independent and make you more alluring. Yes, it’s bullshit that guys pull back when you finally give them what they said they wanted. But most of them do. Hugs, J. I wish you all the best.

I’m sure I was just having a hormonal moment. The great thing about having my own web space is that I’m totally allowed to vent it.