Comments on: And in the afternoon

By: Jewcy Bits

Jewcy Bits — Fri, 29 May 2009 11:18:07 +0000

I’m sorry. You know I wasn’t a big fan of how Big treated you but I know, deep down, you were holding out hope that he was “the one.” I’m hoping that this sitution has shown you that you deserve to be cherished by whomever is LUCKY ENOUGH to finally make you theirs. It just takes time, patience and a lot of trial and error. You’ll get there. Have faith.

Thanks hon, I appreciate that.

By: Singletude

Singletude — Fri, 29 May 2009 05:39:48 +0000

So sorry to hear this! One of the worst feelings in the world is when you try to be so, so, SO cautious about a relationship to the point that the guy has to convince you to take a chance on him...and then he's the one to end it. Here's hoping that you will bounce back from this and that life will bring much, much better things your way. Well thank you. In the end, I realize I simply knew better and that's why I had to work so hard to stay. I shouldn't have put in the effort, that's all.

By: QTMama

QTMama — Wed, 27 May 2009 22:50:20 +0000

I hope he’s dead to you now. I really do.

He is completely DTM. I assure you. There will be no more.

By: aande

aande — Wed, 27 May 2009 17:41:47 +0000

wow- i only recently found your site and just went back to read all of the mr. big entries. i’m so sorry! i am going through the exact, i mean EXACT same thing with my own big right now. hugs to you!

If it’s really exactly the same? Then hugs to you hon. Also? Run.

By: Gwen

Gwen — Wed, 27 May 2009 14:11:45 +0000

((hug))

Thanks.

By: Red

Red — Wed, 27 May 2009 13:54:51 +0000

That was totally out of the blue. But the right guy could show up the same way. Here’s hoping.

Looking back, it wasn’t as surprising as I had thought. At least I can shut the door now, you know?

By: Love Coach Rinatta

Love Coach Rinatta — Wed, 27 May 2009 05:34:40 +0000

Jane, I am sorry you are hurting. And just a reminder – in case you forget – that you do not want too much, even if he thinks so.

It maybe too much for him to handle, but it is not too much and for the right guy, it will be just right – you will be just right, when you are ready.

Oh I know. I didn’t ask for anything but to see him more than once a week. I’ve got no illusions this time. Can’t be with someone if you can’t even spend time with them.

By: Mike

Mike — Wed, 27 May 2009 01:56:57 +0000

Very sad to hear that it’s finally over.

Me too. But it was rather inevitable.

By: Juggle Jane

Juggle Jane — Tue, 26 May 2009 22:52:10 +0000

Oh, lady…I’m so sorry.

It’s ok. And thanks.

By: Jen

Jen — Tue, 26 May 2009 21:50:08 +0000

Ugh, I hate those shades of gray!
I hope you bounce back soon. In the mean time there’s always good friends, comfort food and exercising, that last one always helps me out.

It’s all shades of gray though, isn’t it? And thanks.