Comments on: Letter to Someone

By: Nicole

Nicole — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 18:30:46 +0000

Fantastic letter…I have TWO that I could have written this to, today alone. I don’t let the feelings take me over anymore but earlier this summer I was CRUSHED by the weight of it all. I’m glad to know that when these “what ifs” come up for me it’s not just me & it doesn’t make me cold to just let them flutter on through without truly hurting again.

HUGS!

You are not cold. You are healing. We’re allowed, just like we’re allowed to feel things. You’re not alone.

By: Laura

Laura — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 00:37:23 +0000

Great post. Thanks for making these feelings seem ok. They are ok. Sometimes we just don't realize we're not alone in them.

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By: Newmie

Newmie — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 17:00:44 +0000

I am so lost. I need to stop working so much and blog more. I will kick this guy’s butt.:)

POOL!

It’s no one in particular, no worries. Sloshes!

By: elisabeth

elisabeth — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:52:48 +0000

This letter made me cry. You did a brillant job of writing out wistful thoughts.

You know it’s over, you know it’s for the best, you know it never could have been, but those what ifs. Sometimes they just sneak up on you.

Thank you.

By: melcol

melcol — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:08:59 +0000

I hear ya.

I can’t help but think these things as well about a certain person. I’m just hoping that one day it will stop and I won’t feel this way or think about these things.

Hopefully these feelings that you have will pass

Thanks for writing the letter. I agree with Care…that was really brave

Just remember that DTM hon and it will fade. I promise.

By: Care

Care — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 21:55:37 +0000

I wrote a letter very much like this many months ago. My hurt was crushed, and even though it healed with time – “he” would pop up in my thoughts of “what if” here and there…..causing my heart to threaten to shatter all over again. Thank you for being brave enough to share this with us.

You are my people. Let’s run away together.

By: Ginger

Ginger — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 20:25:04 +0000

*sigh* I could’ve written these very words a time or two.

You have slain me with them. /tears

I feel for anybody experiencing these feelings today…they suck.

It’s not as serious for me as it seems. Just a passing thought vocalized.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:53:17 +0000

These thoughts could have come from my head too. They’ve been swirling around in there for a week. Hopefully yours are gone now.

They come and go. Every once in a blue moon I get wistful, but it’s not actual damage anymore. Here’s hoping you find at least the same level of peace.

By: Catherinette Singleton

Catherinette Singleton — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:32:08 +0000

I’m with QT Mama. He can suck it long time.

He who? I can think of like…. 5 of them.