June 3rd, 2008
I suck. I totally called and bailed on the date and left a very nice, very confused virgin wondering what the hell happened. I am a bad person. Oooof.
UPDATE: Ok, I leveled with him. I don’t know if that makes this tale better or worse but I told him the truth. I’m pretty sure he hates me, which is a freaking shame because he seemed to be a great guy. But I knew I couldn’t handle the responsibility of that relationship and I know he very much is looking for a romantic relationship and not a new friend. I’d like to imagine I did the right thing.
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Oh karma is going to hit you like a frieght train. Just kidding. Better to bail now if you’re not into it. Although since you might have to change the name of your blog since you didn’t go out on 1 date.
I frequently don’t make it to the first date. You have some archives to read, I can see.
Listen, I think at the very least, he can respect your honesty. It’s something that we all crave from others. And even though we might not like hearing the truth, it tends to lead to less confusion and more pain ( read HEARTBREAK) in the long run. I give you props for being woman enough to let him down easy … with the truth.
A lesser woman would have no-showed or said they were suffering the effects of eating bad sushi. Not that I have done either of those things. Nope. Not me.
He has instead decided that I’m a close-minded freak. Whatever. At least I got out before we got into a situation that was even worse than just this.
He needs to find a fellow virgin or take the virginity sign off his dating profile.
If he had a virginity sign on his profile, this wouldn’t have happened as I never would have gotten to talking to him in the first place. What I fail to understand is why he can’t see why this was even remotely important.
He may hate you, but it’s no big deal. I like to think he’ll meet the right girl. As someone who played her own V-card rather late in the game, I would usggest that if you don’t know you’re going to be serious about him you did the right thing.
Exactly, it wasn’t a judgment of him at all. Just an understanding that I am probably not the correct person for him to be involved with at this stage in the game. Wrong thing at the wrong time, is all.
You know what he’s thinking: These damn whores are all the same.:)
Heh, I believe he may have indeed been thinking that. But whatever.
Awww.. and here I bet he was hoping you would be “the one” and he would marry you and you would have his babies and you would live happily ever after… well.. until you realized that he spent more time on the computer playing World of Warcraft than he did with you. *snort!* *giggle!*
Hey now, he said he gave that up! (Ummm… no, seriously. He did.)